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In bed with Gay To Ze Podcast

Does having children have to mean the death of your sex life?! Lotte, Stu and Karen discuss the nuances involved with having intimate moments with yourself or a partner when you are an LGBTQ+ parent.

Watch Dr Karen Gurney’s second Tedx talk

Why are women’s orgasms incorrectly framed as trickier than men’s? What impact does this have on who’s pleasure is prioritised in sex? Find out how the orgasm gap is maintained, and what we can all do to close it.

Why faking orgasms is doing you a disservice

And the secret sauce to a good sex life in the long term. Listen to Dr Karen Gurney speaking to Dr Hazel Wallace on her podcast The Food Medic.

Is your libido on lockdown?

Have you been at it like rabbits in Lockdown 3 or have you found sex is the last thing on your mind? Tune into the latest Hotbed Collective Podcast to hear Dr Karen Gurney offer her top tips on reviving a long lost libido.

Lockdown: The Great British Sex Drought

We spoke with Lynn Enright at Grazia magazine about why those living with a partner are in an ‘unsexy no-man’s land of nothingness’ plus the huge potential for explosive connections once lockdown is over!

Free Resources to Improve Your Sex Life

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Exercise: Understanding your motivations for sex and why it matters

A task to complete alone to increase self-understanding around sexual motivations and their effects

Exercise: Understanding your Conditions for Good Sex

A task to complete alone or with a partner, to increase self-understanding and build the foundations of good sex.

How To Have The Conversation To Get The Sex Life You Want

‘Relationships are never static, sex lives are never static but always moving in some kind of trajectory…’

Your Sex Life Reset Exercise

Take 10 minutes to take stock of how your sex life is going, where you want it to go, and how to get there.

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If your Sex Life Still isn’t Back on Track After Lockdown, Try Scheduling It In

The ipaper quoting from the Mind The Gap: the truth about desire and how to future proof your sex life, as well as the wonderful Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel.

Lockdown: The Great British Sex Drought

We spoke with Lynn Enright at Grazia magazine about why those living with a partner are in an ‘unsexy no-man’s land of nothingness’ plus the huge potential for explosive connections once lockdown is over!

Top 20 LGBTQ+ Micro Influencers To Follow and Support in 2020

We are so proud of Dr Karen Gurney for being mentioned in this list alongside others who have excellent social media accounts with top resources . Go check them out!

Lockdown Lovin’

We offer The Midulthood three ways to help want to get on top of each other when living under each other’s feet.

How Much Sex is Normal?

It makes us feel good and costs us nothing. So why aren’t we having more of it? We spoke to Sharon Walker at Vogue magazine as she investigates the decline in sex

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Our team regularly pop up on podcasts, TV and radio. Listen and watch them all here!

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One Thing with Dr Karen Gurney on why you don’t fancy spontaneous sex

What is Dr Karen Gurney’s One Thing to share with all the parents? Don’t worry if they never feel like sex out of the blue.

Why don’t you want sex? Dirty Mother Pukka Quickie

The big issue is: how do you stop griping and start fancying someone who you’ve seen on the toilet, in birth and snoring in bed with you? Listen in and, well, hop on.

In bed with Gay To Ze Podcast

Does having children have to mean the death of your sex life?! Lotte, Stu and Karen discuss the nuances involved with having intimate moments with yourself or a partner when you are an LGBTQ+ parent.

Watch Dr Karen Gurney’s second Tedx talk

Why are women’s orgasms incorrectly framed as trickier than men’s? What impact does this have on who’s pleasure is prioritised in sex? Find out how the orgasm gap is maintained, and what we can all do to close it.

Why faking orgasms is doing you a disservice

And the secret sauce to a good sex life in the long term. Listen to Dr Karen Gurney speaking to Dr Hazel Wallace on her podcast The Food Medic.

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Erika Lust on Pelvic Floor Health

The latest on pelvic floor, sex and pregnancy. Sarah Wolujewicz x Erika Lust.

Normal People, Extraordinary Times

Dr Karen Gurney offers The Hotbed advice on living such at close quarters with your partner, why this time has been make or break for some couples, and what to do when you’re feeling the tension rising.

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